Comments on: Limbo http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/ Lucid dreaming from a middle-aged motorcyclist Tue, 07 Oct 2008 10:18:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: Shephard http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-39534 Shephard Sat, 13 Jan 2007 21:41:35 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-39534 Ya know, this time of year compounds things... winter makes the whole world feel like it's at a standstill. I bet come spring, you'll feel less stagnant. Use the winter to make plans. Get a big ole corkboard, put it on the wall, and start clipping magazine pix... make it your dream board. I bet it would cheer you. But I certainly think you're not alone in feeling any of that. ~S :) Ya know, this time of year compounds things… winter makes the whole world feel like it’s at a standstill. I bet come spring, you’ll feel less stagnant. Use the winter to make plans. Get a big ole corkboard, put it on the wall, and start clipping magazine pix… make it your dream board. I bet it would cheer you.
But I certainly think you’re not alone in feeling any of that.
~S :)

]]> By: Michael http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-38150 Michael Wed, 10 Jan 2007 18:48:53 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-38150 Thanks for the feedback all, it just confirms what I was already feeling myself. I should have used this time to gain brownie points by joining a monastic order! ;-) On the bright side, it does leave plenty of free time in the summer months for road trips... always a good thing! Thanks for the feedback all, it just confirms what I was already feeling myself. I should have used this time to gain brownie points by joining a monastic order! ;-)

On the bright side, it does leave plenty of free time in the summer months for road trips… always a good thing!

]]> By: Sandra http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-38148 Sandra Wed, 10 Jan 2007 18:01:55 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-38148 4 years of limbo is wayyyy too long. Just my two cents, but I would suggest you not date until you're completely out - I've dated men who weren't quite out yet and well-meaning or not, they were the most hurtful men I've known. It's not fair on a new innocent person coming in to all that - it's asking them to take on just too, too much. 4 years of limbo is wayyyy too long. Just my two cents, but I would suggest you not date until you’re completely out - I’ve dated men who weren’t quite out yet and well-meaning or not, they were the most hurtful men I’ve known. It’s not fair on a new innocent person coming in to all that - it’s asking them to take on just too, too much.

]]> By: Stacy http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37644 Stacy Wed, 10 Jan 2007 14:57:44 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37644 <i>"patience is not my strongest attribute"</i> Patience isn't a strong attribute for any of us, I fear. Sometimes I really wish it were mine but they say to never pray for patience because you'll be sorely tested on it. “patience is not my strongest attribute”

Patience isn’t a strong attribute for any of us, I fear. Sometimes I really wish it were mine but they say to never pray for patience because you’ll be sorely tested on it.

]]> By: SilverWillow http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37328 SilverWillow Wed, 10 Jan 2007 08:34:17 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37328 Limbo is a hard place to be. I am in the midst of a limbo, self-created. I have built a little world, all my own, that does not include dating. I know, I know....those perilous built-up walls, but sometimes it just takes time before you want to share a part of yourself with another person. Sometimes you have to go the journey alone, just to find yourself. But I truly believe that in gaining clarity on myself, I am working on the person I strive to be. And in striving to be that person envisioned, it is THEN...I am told, that my path will cross with my soulmate, for they will see me for who I am. Limbo is a hard place to be. I am in the midst of a limbo, self-created. I have built a little world, all my own, that does not include dating. I know, I know….those perilous built-up walls, but sometimes it just takes time before you want to share a part of yourself with another person.

Sometimes you have to go the journey alone, just to find yourself. But I truly believe that in gaining clarity on myself, I am working on the person I strive to be. And in striving to be that person envisioned, it is THEN…I am told, that my path will cross with my soulmate, for they will see me for who I am.

]]> By: Marianna http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37299 Marianna Tue, 09 Jan 2007 00:25:12 +0000 http://aboyandhisbike.com/2007/01/08/limbo/#comment-37299 I understand that feeling of Limbo so very much... I hope you find your peace. I'm looking for mine, too. M~ I understand that feeling of Limbo so very much… I hope you find your peace. I’m looking for mine, too.

M~

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